New Survey Reveals Extent of Loneliness Among Parents in Yorkshire

Posted By: Christopher Morganon: October 01, 2024In: Current Affairs, News, Regional News, Talking Health TV

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By Joshua Robinson –

A new survey commissioned by family support charity, Home-Start UK, reveals potential widespread loneliness among parents in Yorkshire and the Humber, with almost 9-in-10 (89%) reporting they have experienced feeling lonely or isolated.

The results are part of a national study, carried out by YouGov, that highlights the scale of isolation felt by parents and carers during critical stages of their children’s development and identifies an urgent need for addressing loneliness for families across the country.

Key findings from the national survey include:

Isolation among parents: Almost 1-in-5 (18%) of parents surveyed say they rarely or never have meaningful contact with another adult outside their household, showing the extent of isolation experienced by many families.
Younger parents are more likely to feel isolated: Young parents are much more likely to report feeling isolated than older parents. 28% of parents aged 18-24 say they always or often feel lonely, compared to 20% of parents aged 35-44, and just 16% of parents aged 45-54.
Difference made by employment: Parents who are not working are over twice as likely to always or often feel lonely or isolated, than those who are working, with people who are unemployed three times more likely (working: 16% v unemployed: 48% v not working/other: 36%).
Loneliness is felt by dads as well as mums: Men are as likely as women to say they rarely or never have meaningful contact with other adults outside the household (17% v 19%) and are just as likely to say they often or always have feelings of loneliness and isolation (18% v 20%).
Lower incomes make isolation worse: Those on lower incomes are more likely to say they always or often feel lonely, compared to those on higher incomes. (24% in C2DE v 15% in ABC1), and the high cost of living is the leading factor contributing to feelings of loneliness or isolation (48%).

In response, Home-Start Kirklees, which supports families and children across Kirklees is calling for more volunteers. Their volunteering opportunities range from trustees and business advisors to food parcel deliveries and long-term family support volunteers. If anyone is interested, the next volunteer training course starts on Thursday 10th October in Batley and Huddersfield.

To find out more, please visit www.homestart-kirklees.org.uk or call 01484 421925.

Kerri Flanagan Director of Home-Start Kirklees said: “Home-Start Kirklees has seen a consistent trend in isolation and loneliness since post Covid and is one of the main reasons why families are referred into our services. This has a major impact on parent’s health and well-being which can impact negatively on their children, causing stressful family challenges where they feel like they have nowhere to go and no one to turn to. Parents in this situation can feel vulnerable, that they are not being listed to and no-one cares.”

Peter Grigg, Chief Executive of Home-Start UK, which represents 177 local Home-Starts across the UK, added: “This survey paints a painful picture of a loneliness crisis in parenthood. Even though we are more digitally connected than ever, too many parents are missing meaningful connections with other adults, and this is having a devastating impact on their ability to cope as well as on child development.”

“Parenting can be so joyful, but where parents and carers are isolated, parents can lack emotional support and children miss social interaction. Parents and carers are the most important factor in a child’s development and so it is important for all our futures that we provide compassionate communities of support for families in the critical early years of childhood.”

The findings highlight a silent epidemic faced by parents feeling cut off from the wider community, with social isolation having consequences on their mental health. With inflation driving up the prices of basic living essentials many families are finding it difficult. Financial strains can cause them to cut back on social activities which leads to further isolation.

The new survey reveals the impact of the increase in cost of living and the mental health concerns of parents, with 48% of parents citing the high cost of living as a significant factor contributing to their feelings of loneliness or isolation while 43% of parents acknowledged that mental health challenges play a role in their sense of isolation. Those with the youngest children find physical distance from family and friends as a major contributor to their loneliness and would like more community-based support.

Home-Start Kirklees have joined a new national campaign – “We answer the cries you don’t hear” – to raise awareness of the challenges faced by parents. Three short films have been made to highlight critical issues such as maternal mental health, the impact of the cost of living on families, and the grief faced by parents with young children.

The films highlight the challenges faced by parents like Fahima, who found herself living in a hostel with a four-year-old during pregnancy. Fahima said: “My mental health declined rapidly due to being sick with hyperemesis, homelessness, and loneliness. By the time I gave birth, I was in a very bad place, struggling to even perform basic tasks like showering or holding my baby. Without Home-Start I believe I would have had a severe breakdown”